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It wasn’t all that long ago that the very idea of a mature woman dating a much younger man was strictly taboo. Nowadays, cougar dating seems to be very in vogue, even encouraged in some circles.
For some reason or other, the other way around has always been okay. Our society has long accepted men being coots (my word). Oh sure, we make fun of them and can’t believe that a woman half a man’s age can possibly care anything about him. Maybe, with cougars gaining popularity in the dating scene, we’ll have to rethink our preconceived notions of May/December romances.
One of the differences between coots and cougars may be the lack of commitment. While many older men often marry their young girlfriends, cougars are generally not looking for a long term relationship, although sometimes it does happen despite their original intentions. Mostly, they are looking for some fun, both in and out of the bedroom.
Cougars tend to be divorcees, fit, and financially sound. They are irresistible to young men looking for a mature, confident woman to spend time with.
One thing that boy toys (sometimes called cubs) like about their cougars is the fact that they can carry a conversation. Many young men find it frustrating when talking to women their own age, especially because of their tendency to giggle, and express their insecurities.
There are many pluses to cougar dating in addition to the ones already mentioned. Dating a younger man can be exciting. For an older woman to be desired by a good looking, passionate man who previously in history was considered off limits, is down right sexy, and you can bet that there is no Viagra needed. That hard bodied young stud doesn’t need it.
For the mature woman not looking to settle down, cougar dating may be ideal. She can enjoy her cub’s company, and move on when the relationship has run its course. This can be perfect for the young man, as well, especially if he wants to start a family some day. The couple get to enjoy each other for awhile, and no doubt learn things about a relationship that will help them in future.
If there is one caution about cougar dating, it would have to be to guard your heart. When two people get along well, laugh a lot together, have an amazing sex life, and can communicate openly and honestly with each other, there is the possibility of falling in love. If it happens for you both, that’s great. However if not, there will be the heartbreak that is typical of any relationship where one person has more invested emotionally than the other.
So, is it worth it to engage in cougar dating? Women say, “Definitely”. Most young men would answer with a resounding, “YES!” Which ones? Come on in and see.
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How would you like to stay in Umbria for two weeks and not have to pay a dime for your accommodations? That would sure save you money on your vacation, wouldn’t it? And, let’s say your accommodation was a 4-bedroom, 3-bath stone building which dates back to the 14th century, with a kitchen with all you need to cook fabulous meals? That would save money on dining out, now, wouldn’t it? Of course, with the house costing nothing, who needs to save money by eating in?
Where can you find such incredible savings? It’s called house exchange or house swap. The recent movie “The Holiday” used the notion of a house swap to help the leading characters find romance. One woman from England swaps houses with a woman from the United States over the Christmas holiday and they both find romance in their new surroundings. Will their new romance become permanent and lasting true love? Who knows, but at least we know they saved money. And, you can too.
Here’s how it works. If you decide you want to exchange homes with someone, you sign up with a house exchange company, which can typically cost around $60 to $80 per year, choose which destination you wish to visit and the dates, and see if there are any potential exchange partners who you match with. If they agree to stay in your house during the time specified, you’re on your way to a vacation in Paris, Florence, San Francisco, or wherever there’s a match. And the cost? Just your membership fees to the exchange company. Your only costs, then, are your airfare, dining out and recreation. Considering that lodging can run about $150 a night and even higher, you stand to save hundreds to thousands on your vacation.
House swapping is nothing new, and many of the exchange companies have been in business for decades, with more popping up all the time.
Aside from the savings, you get the opportunity of living like the locals do. You get the opportunity to try restaurants that aren’t near the tourist hotels, see places you otherwise might pass up.
In addition to the benefits you receive in your “new home,” your old home is being looked after by your exchange partners, which means you don’t have to pay anyone to water your plants or check up on your house. And, if your arrangement with your exchange partner allows for it, your pets will be cared for as well.
Some things to consider before posting your request with your chosen company include:
Will you allow for the use of your car? Many times the exchange partners exchange cars as well.
Do you agree to care for the exchange partner’s pets?
How many people do you allow to stay in your house?
Will you allow children?
Will you allow pets?
One question you may have is – is home exchange safe? Obviously there are unscrupulous people out there, so you can increase your safety by making sure you keep your valuables locked up. It’s also a good idea to have your mail held by the post office. Also, you could choose only those homes which have had prior exchanges. If someone’s had 10 successful exchanges you should feel pretty secure. However, if at any time during the process you feel uneasy about the exchange, trust your instincts and stop the process.
House swapping is definitely one option to consider in order to cut down on vacation costs. Who knows, it may open you up to a new way of travel that you’ll return to year after year after year.
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